Dr. Daniel Clauw, director of the Chronic Pain and Fatigue Research Center at the University of Michigan, is one of the world’s leading CFS & Fibromyalgia researchers. Here are Dr. Clauw’s golden rules for CFS & FM:
Focus on what you need to do to get better, not what caused your illness.
Look forward, not backwards.
Look for treatments, not cures.
Physicians cure very few chronic medical illnesses; FM/CFS is not likely to be one of them.
Find a health care provider who will work with you.
Explain, don’t complain.
Suggest a series of short visits each addressing specific issues. Skip the long lists.
Gently educate, with credible sources of information (i.e., scientific articles).
Try exercise and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).
People who recommend them don’t think you are lazy (exercise) or crazy (CBT).
Try tested therapies before untested therapies.
When trying any therapies (tested or untested), do your own personal research. Make sure the treatment is safe.
Only start one new treatment at a time.
See if you get better when you are using the treatment.
See if you get worse when you stop the treatment.
See if you get better again when you re-start the treatment.
If the treatment passes this test, then it works for you.
If you are still having symptoms, seek out a treatment that is likely to help those symptoms and add it to the above treatment.
When your symptoms get worse, don’t assume it is because a treatment has stopped working and stop your existing treatments or look to add new treatments.
The natural history of these illnesses is to wax and wane.
Look for stressors or changes in behavior that may have made symptoms worse.
When a treatment improves symptoms, you must correspondingly increase function.
THERE IS HOPE!
Most individuals who are treated with existing treatments that are known to work get better and can live normal lives.
There is significant interest by the National Institutes of Health (NIH) and the pharmaceutical industry in this spectrum of illnesses. The more money that is spent on studying these illnesses, the more effective we will be at treating them.
Wonderful and very important list of coping skills even for people who don’t have CFS. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for providing this site. I have had CFS
for 13 years, like you, I feel I had it since youth or maybe forever,lol. I really related to your story. Again thank you for being here.
Hi msmkpink, Thank you so much for stopping by! I am sorry to hear that you have CFS, too. If you would like to send me your story, I would be happy to post it on here. I am going to start a new series of CFS stories on this blog and I would love to include yours!