Holiday Tips From A CFIDS Survivor

You can read the entire article here.  The tips I’ve listed below from the article. 

“The following are some suggestions on how to cope more effectively and manage your energy during the holiday season.

1. Declare your boundaries, politely but firmly. Try not to go to multiple events in one day or maybe even in one weekend. Don’t overexplain. People in general don’t understand the words tired or sick beyond their own experiences. Most of the time it’s wise to simply say, “I am unable to come, but I appreciate your invitation.”

1. Don’t compare yourself with others. Accept your limitations without blaming yourself. Also realize that people you know who seem to be able to do it all aren’t always doing as well as they appear. In my counseling office, I’ve seen people whose personal life may be falling apart while they rush around to all the activities of the season.
2. For many of us, buying and wrapping presents are the final stresses that overwhelm us. Shopping early, using home shopping on TV or the Internet, buying gift certificates, wrapping ahead of time, using bags rather than wrapping paper and getting help from a teenager or friend are all ways to relieve some of that stress. You might also consider forgoing gifts altogether one year in favor of a just spending time with friends or giving a card with a heartfelt message.
3. Don’t expend valuable energy trying to decorate your house. If you enjoy holiday decorations, choose one or two favorites to display. Focus on a wreath, a menorah or another meaningful symbol of the holiday you celebrate. Save some things for another year. If you alternate decorations rather than using them all at one time, the stress will be less and the change will add variety to future holidays.
4. If entertaining is an integral part of your holiday season, think of simple ways to do it: like serving dessert instead of a full dinner or getting take-out food arranged on festive dishes. Be more casual and serve buffet-style. Let people help you serve and clean up. And above all, plan ahead by freezing foods and pacing your cooking activities.
5. Try creative ways to entertain that do the work for you. Let each guest bring a specific type of dish. Have a tree-decorating party and serve dessert. A similar plan can work with a holiday card-writing party. Have someone help you set up tables and have everyone bring their cards, writing materials and a snack for everyone else. Just remember to keep it small.
6. Maintain better nutrition throughout the holiday season. Protein snacks and fresh vegetables and fruits, combined with less sugar and fats, can help in maintaining your energy level during the holidays. And don’t forget to keep hydrated.
7. Plan your rest time as much as your activities. Space your events so that active days are followed by those which have less demands. Use your down time to really break away from holiday activities and rejuvenate yourself.